I’m in love with a really close friend, I think she feels the same way, what do I do?

A little background, it’s kind of a strange situation, we have been friends for 2.5 years and in an organization where members are not allowed to date each other. We text each other constantly when we’re at home, and hangout a lot when we are near each other. I don’t know what to do. She texted me at like midnight the other day and told me that she broke up with her boyfriend. She sends me multiple Snapchats a day, and texts me all the time.
On the others hand she is naturally very flirty person, and I don’t want to jump the gun, but I really do think she’s into me
The last time a group of us went out to drink, we got really drunk and she kissed and hugged me a lot, but she was hugging everybody, and kissed some other guys, she is really flirty when she’s drunk

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VoloProVeritas62 · 61-69, M

Go for it. Tell her how you feel and let her tell you how she feels. Then go from there.

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@VoloProVeritas62 if she doesn’t feel the same way I don’t want to ruin the friendship though

VoloProVeritas62 · 61-69, M

@SW-User Have you ever heard of agape love? In case you haven't, it's love that is unconditional. It heals the broken hearted, gives strength to the faint of heart, comforts the mournful, and brings hope to the unloved. This is the kind of love that God has for us and this is the kind of love that we should have for each other. Believe me, it is easier said than done. But it is not impossible to have for mankind. The more you practice it, the easier it gets. The best and hardest attribute about this kind of love is that you never stop loving them regardless. This is the kind of love that I practice in my heart.

Practice this in your heart and let her know that your friendship with her will always come first.