Are there certain unspoken rules for intimacy when it comes to a couple with different body types?

So I'm pretty curvy and thick (especially on the bottom) and the guy I'm getting closer with is taller but also way thinner than me. And so I started thinking, if we got intimate should I always take the bottom? Because I'd probably feel like a whale if I straddled him or tried to take the top. Would he think the same? It's kind of embarrassing... 😞

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MrBrownstone · 46-50, M

You can be a power bottom.

LadyAlera · 31-35, F

@MrBrownstone lol my power bottom powered by my thunder thighs! 😂

MrBrownstone · 46-50, M

@LadyAlera Could be an intense orgasm if you squeeze him with your thighs.

LadyAlera · 31-35, F

@MrBrownstone An intense orgasm for me or for him?

MrBrownstone · 46-50, M

@LadyAlera Him

LadyAlera · 31-35, F

@MrBrownstone Nice, I'll remember that.

MrBrownstone · 46-50, M

@LadyAlera Have you not had sex with him yet?

LadyAlera · 31-35, F

@MrBrownstone Nah. No intimacy yet. I'm just looking ahead and wanted to be prepared lol

MrBrownstone · 46-50, M

@LadyAlera I understand. Are you a Virgin?

LadyAlera · 31-35, F

@MrBrownstone Yup! :)

MrBrownstone · 46-50, M

@LadyAlera Oh. I see. Will hurt a little the first time for you.

LadyAlera · 31-35, F

@MrBrownstone So I hear. That's okay, as long as I know what's coming, I'll be mentally prepared at least. Hopefully...

MrBrownstone · 46-50, M

@LadyAlera That helps a lot. And just do what comes naturally. Each time you have sex will get better. You will learn what each other like

LadyAlera · 31-35, F

@MrBrownstone Thank you! :D

MrBrownstone · 46-50, M

@LadyAlera Everybody was a Virgin at one time. It’s awkward for each of us.

LadyAlera · 31-35, F

@MrBrownstone Ahh if there's something I know well, it's awkwardness lol

MrBrownstone · 46-50, M

@LadyAlera It will be less awkward each time.

LadyAlera · 31-35, F

@MrBrownstone Thanks!