Do you think in a marriage either man or woman should be 'the boss'?

Honestly, I don't think so. If i'd have nothing to say, I don't want a relationship at all. And it doesn't mean that I would ever want to be 'the boss'. I'd hate even the thought of it. I think in a relationship it's all about respect and being able to make compromises, and truly listening to each other, paying attention with each other's wishes. And when two people are too different from each other, I think they just won't match.. My thought. What's your thought?