Does he sound interested?

Hi all, I met this man through a professional trade he deals with house refurbs and has his own team of builders. He dealt with me most through normal messages/WhatsApp and the phone. The building work completed a week ago. He whatsapped me yesterday asking how I was etc then asked me to call him. I called him back he was having a general chit chat with me before I mentioned the building work and thanked him for all his workers had done. He then said ok courtesy call blah blah. He wouldn't put the phone down. Eventually we messaged in the evening and he said he likes my selfie. Previous to this he has sent winky emojis.

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UreBesFrend · M Best Comment

The guy is obviously married, even if he says he isn't. Not that its a bad thing if you are into a little fun. Talk to one of his workers, ask the guy how old his wife is, or something, see what they say.

Lovingly1 · 31-35, F

@UreBesFrend what makes you say his married? Thanks by the way

celine211 · 22-25, F

@UreBesFrend Yeah how did you guess that? 😂

UreBesFrend · M

@Lovingly1 Because that is how a married guy would act, all flirty. Hay, I could be completely wrong, but that is how it sounds to me from your description.

Maybe he is the perfect guy too.

SW-User

@Lovingly1 @UreBesFrend Yeah, I was wondering the same thing, how would you know?

celine211 · 22-25, F

@UreBesFrend How do non-married/single guys that are interested in you act?

UreBesFrend · M

@celine211 They are more shy. They might see you again someplace and you can tell they are interested, but they aren't sending you emoji's and being so forward. This guy sounds well practiced. A hunter out gathering food.

celine211 · 22-25, F

@UreBesFrend Like a player?

SW-User

@UreBesFrend Oh, I see where you're coming from.

Married men are secure, and they just flirt and pass the time with whomever because there's no fear of rejection because they have a wife.

Single men are hesitant because while they have confidence, they're still putting themselves out there and can get rejected.

While true, he could also be single and very forward. If I were married I wouldn't continue the conversation past the job completion like it was posted, but that's just me.