After divorce and you're alone, why is it that every one tells you they love you but right after they do, they hang up. In other words, they "love you
But if they're hanging up, they don't love you enough to be there with you
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SW-User
your age? Real question. Never been through divorce, but have been through two separations and the first time I got better support. To begin to imagine, the next time I was older (obvious) and it was by nine years, and also having a father that died too, and somehow unlike how the time before, they were more distant this time. I know it's judgmental of me, but the older my friends get they display less heart.
ElPhonse · M
@SW-User I guess im being unreasonable because I can't expect people would leave their comfortable lives to come stay here so I won't be lonely. Still though, I feel being alone every day forever hurts.
It’s just words. Kind of like when I lost my mom and people would say,”Let us know if you need anything.” And then I can’t reach them. The people in my church followed through and brought us meals for two weeks, watched my son when I couldn’t, and pitched in money so we could go away for some quiet and rest in the mountains. It’s all words with people who really don’t care.
ElPhonse · M
I'm just bitter and even envious of others who are not suffering as I am or are even enjoying happiness in their relationships.