What will you do if your close friend decides to hook you up with her boy-friend's best-friend?

And I don't even want any relationships but the close friend keeps forcing and if I don't accept she would be mad at me for eternity?

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1GHOST · M

So .... who runs your life ?
And if she was truly YOUR friend she'd stop pushing you .
It sounds like shes trying to make HER life easier not yours .

I would have a open but friendly conversation with her but be firm and just tell her thanks but your not up for it ...period .

2good4u · 31-35, F

@1GHOST I agree with your points. I did try to say 'No' but she uses the 'guilt-tripping' of: "You are my best-friend, aren't you? What ever happened to, making me happy?" and also because the dude is her lovely (note the sarcasm) boyfriend's best-friend. The boyfriend is one year younger to be match-making my love life. (Really wishing I could say this to her that night)

1GHOST · M

@2good4u How about you copy and paste this / then "accidently " email it to her ?

Oops sorry I was talking to someone else and sent it to you by mistake ..

2good4u · 31-35, F

@1GHOST Oh dang! That's actually pretty nice. :P Might just try doing that. Or using 'figurative language' like in poetry.
:) You made me laugh, thanks!

1GHOST · M

@2good4u Anytime !!

Can you just see it " AND WHO the heck is this Ghost guy ???? when ...where did you meet him ???"LOL