It literally breaks my heart and tears me apart everytime I hear someone broke up or got divorced.

I'm not the kind that can. But some people just wake up each day and decide they need a change. Most keep thinking they'll find better. I know my ex ended up with a woman who beats on him. I wanted him gone, but he would threaten to kidnap my girls if i tried to leave. Most people will always look for better. Then when they get it, they realize it wasn't better after all.