Should a person be able to voice being upset about something in a relationship?

Poll - Total Votes: 4

Yes, humans have emotions, and throwing jars of mayo is ok.

No, spouses should bite their tongue if they can't communicate at all.

Just divorce already.

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Even if they raise their voice at times and state they are angry? Does it make it okay for the other person to accuse them of treating them like shit, throw jars of Mayo at the floor, and slam the door so hard that artwork falls off the wall?

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Starkizzed21 · 31-35, F

I lost my shit because between running back and forth to calm a Whiney teething baby and putting groceries away he burnt my grilled cheese, and then I remembered he forgot to pick up my antidepressants while at the store where the pharmacy is. I voiced my incredible frustration. Apparently I can't.
Earlier I had been trying to rush through making grilled cheesy roll ups, and he said I was doing it wrong. I gave up to put groceries away since he dropped them at the door and ignored putting anything away, ignored the cranky baby, and then I'm left with black grilled cheese, a still Whiney baby, and a crying 3 year old cuz daddy threw a jar of mayo, broke it, and then stormed out, slamming the door.
He apologized to our son. Not me. Says he did, but I "didn't hear him.".