MisVirtuous · 46-50, F
If there are going to be constant reminders (meeting him, pictures, etc.) then I'm not sure you're going to forget him. Either keep away from those reminders altogether (not always possible, I know) or try to focus on accepting what is.
fddlpej · 61-69, M
If you were truly in love. It will take a lot of time. You will compare the next few people you date to the one that you were or still are in love with. They will probably not fair as well because they will be going against your emotions for the other person. They may actually be better people but you may not see it. Because you still love someone else. But don't try to force it either and tell yourself how much better the new person is. Just so you can get over the last person. Just try to see how things go honestly. And in time the hurt should lesson up. And someone else will have a chance a real chance for the two of you to be in love.
MisVirtuous · 46-50, F
Focus on the present; keep your mind busy with constructive things; be patient- let time pass. 🙂

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Welcome to life ! Nothing worth doing is ever easy ...if it was. Everyone would do it ...
fddlpej · 61-69, M
Good luck but if you do take that long at least you have an idea of what is going on. I think lol.
Sweet517 · 51-55, F
I don't think you ever forget but you move on. It takes time to let go.

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Then keep on trying until you move on ...don't give up !
floatingintheocean · 36-40, F
Compare to someone much better?

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Let me know when you figure it out
coolboy86 · 36-40, M
its been impossible for me
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Moonlight · 80-89, F
Chernoby why? And btw you kinda do it
Flenflyys · 31-35, F
@chaud 😂 Well...
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Moonlight · 80-89, F
Sunshine oh I will lol
Moonlight · 80-89, F
Flenflyss so I will have to do it everyday lol

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I do ? 😵....ok I will stop that

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Find a new distraction
Moonlight · 80-89, F
Chernoby yeah but its sooo hard
Moonlight · 80-89, F
Misvirtuous Time doesn't really help, I always think that I kinda forgot that person till I meet him or sometimes even just see his new picture or something about him

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One of things I promised myself that I would no longer do is indulge others in their own misery ......
Moonlight · 80-89, F
Flen haha yeah sometimes it works for me too, but only for some time. Maybe I just need to stay distracted all the time
Moonlight · 80-89, F
Fddlpej, oh well I hope that won't take that long. But thanks for the help dude 👍
Moonlight · 80-89, F
Chernoby I was at some place where I dug, it was really hard but didn't help at all cuz i was thinking about that person at that time
Moonlight · 80-89, F
Chernoby not all the time.. but yeah sometimes. Idk if you do rn
Moonlight · 80-89, F
Floating but what if there's no one better?
Moonlight · 80-89, F
Coolboy still thinking about that person?
Moonlight · 80-89, F
Misvirtuous but I can't delete my insta, Facebook or unfollow him. Or I can't just stop meeting him, cuz I don't control it
Moonlight · 80-89, F
Coolboy oh I hope so
Moonlight · 80-89, F
Lol yeah kinda haha
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Moonlight · 80-89, F
Coolboy oh gosh how long?
Flenflyys · 31-35, F
@moonlight just enough to stay distracted haha. Plus hang out wit your gfs and bitch to them and yell tell you you can do so much better. That's what I do, it works.
coolboy86 · 36-40, M
times heals all wounds my cute ass
Flenflyys · 31-35, F
Get drunk and bang someone else
Moonlight · 80-89, F
Chaud hi dude
coolboy86 · 36-40, M
you bet your hot ass I am