what should i do?

I'm in relationship from past five years n as days are passing I'm not attracted to him anymore. He is dull,lazy,becoming fat,jobless!
I'm attracted to a guy in my office,well he was the one to start this(my colleague).
I'm so confused.

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Alfarrobas · 36-40, M

If you are going to break up, break up. Don't fool around. He can be in a low phase of his life but, maybe, he doesn't deserve that.
And, before, you should talk with him. Is it his fault? Both? Yours? What is happening and what you feel about what is happening.