What does she really mean when she says "it's not you its me"?

It could be anything really. She sees something between the two of you that she doesn't see as compatible and doesn't want to invest time, effort, and energy in something she doesn't believe is going to last.

More often than not, I imagine that means "It's totally you, but I don't want to hurt your feelings, because I know you had the best of intentions, but this just isn't working."

She don't think you're both compatible so she's breaking up 😊 And she's claiming the fault as her own.. In a way it's true 😆

It means she thinks you are into her (and the relationship) but she doesn't feel the same.. Hence she's the problem 😊

That it's not you, it's her

Short wangs aren't the only reason to ditch people.. Big dicks get ditched too .. 😆😆🌷

Personality is key.. You either have it or you don't..

It means she is too polite to tell you that it's really you.

It's so, so, so you. But, I don't want to come across like at bitch

Lol I was joking about the wang.

It puts you in charge.. I guess @Martin

Could mean so many things.

You have a small Wang.

Only she would truly know the answer to how she feels. If she cared enough about you I would imagine she could at least tell you the truth of why it's not working out.

It's not you it's me- realizing i can do better than you. Or it's not you it's me realizing you can go fuck yourself. Or maybe it's just my definitions lol

It's an old breakup line. It means that she does not find you attractive enough.

@martin why should I believe it when it is such a cliche

She is the one with the issues

Like I said... Small wang.

because it's really her

@madhatter as I thought

I have a personality, and I've got several keys, where does that put me?

I like the sound of that 😏

Cliche doesn't have to make it into a lie, what if your words means something and you're honest, but she thinks that you're lying, then what is the purpose for you to speak even another word?

you're all expecting that she's lying :P Why?