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lovelychicadee · 41-45, F
I met someone on EP and we did the Long distance thing for about a year. He lived 15 hrs away. He moved out here to be with me, we lived together for 9 months but sadly it ended. I had really thought I found the one. I embrace and enjoy what LD relationships can give to someone but the physical needs of not having the person there is very challenging.
anythingoes477 · M
@lovelychicadee Which is why if one finds a human connection that can give one all they possibly need on an online basis mentally and emotionally--while at the same time they tell you "I am not possessive so if you have physical needs that are taken care of where you are (until we can be together) by a FWB---I will not rag on you for that"-----that is the one that is the keeper. That person cares--without making you feel like you're a possession.
lovelychicadee · 41-45, F
This does make sense to me. Sometimes its hard though when you just want to be held by the one you emotionally give yourself too.
anythingoes477 · M
@lovelychicadee It's not "sometimes hard"--it's hard every night and every day you are alone.
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
@lovelychicadee Very well said.