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Ex bf went to whatever extent to hurt me by dating my coworker as well as taking his new date to our anniversary spot. How should I behave?

Even though it’s killingme inside, he publically defamed me and made all his friends and family hate me. I feel like I am being bullied. I broke up with him because he kept breaking up with me and getting back together whenever there was something he didn’t like. I was so in love with him and wanted to marry him so breaking up was extremely difficult for me. On top of the break up he is trying to make me pay for it and go out of his way to hurt me
Sensitiveheart
31-35, F
12 replies 118 views Nov 20, 2017
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RugDoll · 36-40, F
Why are you allowing this man treat you like shit? You love this man more than yourself?.. Honey, love yourself first. Do not allow him or anyone else treat you like this
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Lickitysplit · 70-79, M
You need to realize and admit that this guy was abusive to you, immature, unready for commitment, and in general a complete jerk. Consider yourself lucky to be rid of him and ignore his juvenile behavior.
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MissMollyCharlotte0702
Do you have any older brothers or male friends that can pay him a visit? He needs to be brought down a notch or two.
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sspec
Learn to stand on your own feet n love yourself. 👍
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Shayla · F
How should you behave? You should let it go. You broke up. He can do whatever he wants with whoever he wants wherever he wants.

From what you wrote here it sounds like you two did not have a healthy relationship.

Do not seek out information on him. Don't continue conversations about who he dates. Just leave it in the past.
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DistilledSpirit · 41-45, M
You should behave with indifference. Try to ignore it all and move on. If he’s being petty and immature after your breakup, consider it validation that you made the right choice.
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LyricalOne · F
You should behave like someone who's grateful for dodging a bullet. The guy sounds like a giant a-hole.
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SW-User
Why do you continue to focus on this?! He's a lost cause
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JimmyS · M
Ignore him,and maybe it will stop
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DistilledSpirit · 41-45, M
Try to ignore it, and let it go.
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whateverhappens · 26-30, F
well shoot him
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JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F
I would behave by filing a police report for harrassment and getting a restraining order. If he would like to bully and defame you can ensure your safety and send a clear message.
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