How to move forward once your ex bf public ally defamed you and made most people go against you?
31-35, F
Top | Newest First | Oldest First
Theawkwardbear · 26-30, F
Sensitiveheart · 31-35, F
Thank you for your advice. It was a really difficult break up because we were together for almost 4 years (I was completely in love with him). He always would break up with me and then get back together when something he did not like happened. I eventually had the courage to break up with him but I thought he would finally realize what he was doing and if h really cared about me would change seeing as we were together for so many years.
He also would complain about me a lot and now he is dating a girl exactly like me with the same characteristics. He would never be supportive or like my photos but with her he does (even if she posts the same things I use to do). He is doing everything we use to do. It’s just hurtful to see that he is doing Those things with her and for 4 years with me- nothing and preferred to defame me in front of his friends.@Theawkwardbear
He also would complain about me a lot and now he is dating a girl exactly like me with the same characteristics. He would never be supportive or like my photos but with her he does (even if she posts the same things I use to do). He is doing everything we use to do. It’s just hurtful to see that he is doing Those things with her and for 4 years with me- nothing and preferred to defame me in front of his friends.@Theawkwardbear
Theawkwardbear · 26-30, F
@Sensitiveheart I'm sorry that you're having to go through this. It's hard, honestly I know exactly how you feel.. but I've learned in each heartbreak and bad experience we have, no matter how horrible or unbearable and hurtful they will be, it will go away. And you'll always remember that these experiences you've had shape you up into a stronger person. They help define you more and more. And also help you see more clear what it is you really want from a man, a real man. And have zero tolorance for someone pulling your heart strings, messing with your emotions and self worth and just playing games with your head. Because now that you've felt those things and experienced it.. you become stronger, without even realizing it. Because you know you don't want to feel that pain again. And you will know that you deserve better, much MUCH better.
And you do. You really do. And I hope you find someone who respects and loves you the way you deserve to be loved. 😊
And you do. You really do. And I hope you find someone who respects and loves you the way you deserve to be loved. 😊
