A handsome guy wanted relation with my gf and she said to me "I dont love you anymore I'm with him"

@Pianist1234 I really [b]like[/b] that!!! You know, that is even better. Way better. Yes, you’re right. Show love. I stand corrected and thank you so much!

@Pianist1234 This is really what I meant to say, so changed it: When you’ve been with someone a number of times and you see it’s constantly negative things that come from them, that constantly hurt you, you’ll know they are toxic. Do them no harm, but love yourself enough to not allow that in your life.

Better? 😀😉

@Pianist1234 Yes, we are to forgive and love as Christ did, and treat them as Christ loves us. Even when we didn’t deserve it. However, that does not mean that we are to submit ourselves to abuse, or have to hang out with that person. I’ve done as Christ asked, many many times, but one is not asked to take it to the extreme where they lose their health, which is what happened to me. That is not what that verse meant. When it comes to the point that it is tearing you up and causing you to lose sleep or your health, I’m sure God does not expect us to harm ourselves in that way. We can still love them, but at a distance. If they speak to us, yes, be kind, but we are not meant to engage in relationships that literally harm us. God would not have it that way. He gives us common sense for a reason. He did not mean us to be doormats. Or to be abused.

Thank you, dear. @Pianist1234