My mom asked me my weight and do i think I'm fat or no. There's a guy looking for a wife but he doesn't want fat girl.

Told my mom to tell him to find in model agency.

BTW I'm 5'2 and 140 lbs. I'm fat, aren't I?

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polyandrym66 · 70-79, M

Looks like 102 to 138 is normal for 5'2" at 28yo..
http://www.calculator.net/ideal-weight-calculator.html

But I like woman heavier than normal..
Sounds like you are not..
I also like older woman..

Just WHY is your Mom looking for a BF for you? Did you ask her to scout for you?
In my opinion, it is NOT her business to find your lovers..

Walkingparadox · 31-35, F

@polyandrym66 yes i leave it all to her

polyandrym66 · 70-79, M

@Walkingparadox OH.. Is it your custom to accept arranged relationships? Have you been in one (yet) that your Mom managed?

Walkingparadox · 31-35, F

@polyandrym66 it's not really arrat, my opinion matters too. Like if she offer me anyone, I'll see if i like him or no, if not that i have 100% right to say no

polyandrym66 · 70-79, M

@Walkingparadox You are lucky that she is so open to your opinion. Most arranged unions are forced..

Walkingparadox · 31-35, F

@polyandrym66 according to what i learn from my religion the girl has right too

polyandrym66 · 70-79, M

@Walkingparadox What religion is that? I'm curious, because the ones I been exposed to encouraged forced relationships with no choices or the ability to reject..

Walkingparadox · 31-35, F

@polyandrym66 I'm a Muslim, if you take a look at my profile, i made some posts about me and what u believe. And if there's some Muslims who force their children to do arranged marriage, that's their culture, nothing to do with religion

polyandrym66 · 70-79, M

@Walkingparadox Thanks for the clarifications.. My exposure was casual and I did not ask a lot of questions..
You are very good at communicating and not judging.
I meant no dis-respect of any kind, and am glad that you took none from my ignorant questions..

Walkingparadox · 31-35, F

@polyandrym66 I'm not in position to judge anyone. I mean i like to share something that people probably don't know yet. And i know you didn't mean to disrespect.

polyandrym66 · 70-79, M

@Walkingparadox Thanks.. You did a GREAT job explaining and not over-reacting. You are a kind and gentle person.. I appreciate that and so will your future mate..

Walkingparadox · 31-35, F

@polyandrym66 thank you, sir.

polyandrym66 · 70-79, M

@Walkingparadox Your Welcome.. Well Earned...