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Is it just me? or has this happened to others?

So, I really like the person I am with, but I know its not going to go anywhere. I have fun dates and we enjoy each others company but we are incredibly different and I don't know how to even mention that to them fact that its going no where.
Is this guy under the impression that it is going somewhere?
silver1sil · 26-30, F
@CereBellum I feel like he believes he cant convince me to see most things his way or just acknowloledge that I have a difference and pretend it isnt there so yeah I think he believes he can ignore it to stay with me.
@silver1sil So, he wants to settle down with you? Yeah, not a terribly good idea at your age. Try to keep him as a friend though.
silver1sil · 26-30, F
I know its.... something.... I don't ... not ready and not feeling like itll be with him
SW-User
been there, do it asap or waste your time
Sarabee · 41-45
Does he have great sex🤔❤️
silver1sil · 26-30, F
Ehh, doubt it.. it's one of the issues we have... he's doesn't get close to gay men
Sarabee · 41-45
@silver1sil homophobic😆❤️
silver1sil · 26-30, F
Yeah one of the differences I have with Him
Wiseacre · F
So what..why do all relationships need to go somewhere? Enjoy ur fun dates and make no mention of going nowhere.
SW-User
yep need chemistry. need similarities to feed off of each other.
katielass · F
Sure. Before I met my hubby I was dating an older man who I had fun with but I knew I wasn't going to fall in love with him although i liked him. we got along great but he wasn't surprised when I told him I'd met someone special. It was the same for him.
Howaboutno · 31-35, F
I kind of understand you! What sort of things makes you very different? Will it affect anything if you simply accept differences and learn from One another?
silver1sil · 26-30, F
@Howaboutno The thing is I am very strong about certain viewpoints I have and I wont budge and I like the country side but I don't want to live in the countryside all my life. city life is my thing relaxing every now and then in the country is nice . He wont even visit the city.
SW-User
Do it like my last gf did, send an email to this effect to them soon.
ScarletWitch · 26-30, F
Try to make it work before you break a heart.
thenightwatchman · 36-40, M
Maybe see where it goes. Or ask if you are happy
Fernie · F
sounds like you'll make good friends
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R5000 · 41-45, M
That's impressive cleavage
SW-User
Tell them asap

 
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