You think you know him

You think you're doing the best for him
You think you're the only fish in his pond
You're not.
You're controlling
And spiteful
I wouldn't be surprised if that's why you end up single
But one thing is for sure
He'll be there for you, because he cares too much

I'm the third wheel. Remember that.

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alan20 · M

I like that. Hopefully also she for him.

insidiousisblindinception · 26-30, F

@alan20 She wouldn't do that for him. The whole point is to say she is unworthy.

alan20 · M

@insidiousisblindinception I suppose he'll eventually realise the truth then. Didn't read your question properly - sorry. I suppose some can be dazzled by some trait they perceive in the other.

insidiousisblindinception · 26-30, F

@alan20 I was more venting than anything, and then I realized that readers think I am the "you" in the post. No. lol

insidiousisblindinception · 26-30, F

@alan20 History and fear of change is what keeps most relationships going. People get bored, people become uninterested, and grow apart. They fight and argue.

alan20 · M

@insidiousisblindinception The idealistic me says you're cynical, and the me of experience says you're right. Its a pity though.

insidiousisblindinception · 26-30, F

Cynical implies I'm evil. Let's go with angry and revengeful. Both purely humane.

alan20 · M

@insidiousisblindinception I hope not. My son said to me recently the one thing I'd taught him in life was to be cynical and I took it as a half_compliment !!! I'm sure you're not evil. I like humane and realistic.

insidiousisblindinception · 26-30, F

Eh, I do not wish to be cynical.

alan20 · M

@insidiousisblindinception I think we're seeing it as meaning different things. Realistic ; taking people at their face value while realising that like ourselves they have numerous different layers. And like onions, can make us cry as well as adding to life's enjoyment. Am I talking crap? (yes is the answer).

insidiousisblindinception · 26-30, F

@alan20 The first thing I thought of is "Ogres are like onions. We have layers." and then "What about layer cakes? Everybody likes layer cakes"
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GZpcwKEIRCI

alan20 · M

@insidiousisblindinception Never got into You-tube. I quite like onions in the right context. I could eat layer-cake but there are nicer ways of putting on calories. What exactly is venting? Is that what I'm doing?

insidiousisblindinception · 26-30, F

Sort of. It doesn't matter if you are into YouTube, I just send the link so you would get my reference about layer cakes and onions.
Venting is sharing emotions and thoughts.