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Is this a sign he faded me out of his life?

We talked intensely for days we racked up 12hours of talking time in just 4 days.
I let him do the chasing.
We finally went on our first date on the Monday and it was amazing we just clicked.

We met up again for a walk on the Tuesday night. Although we agreed to wait to sleep together it didn't feel wrong we were both a little nervous or at least I was... and we made love...
We ended up spending the whole of Wednesday together in bed.

He wanted to see me again on the Thursday but cancelled he mentioned having his daughter last minute.
He then went on to suggest Friday night.
I explained my mother would be round and that it might not work unless he wanted to come over later...
I had noticed that he was a little different though he would usually text me first thing where as what had turned into a competition on who could text first changed to me texting and him not responding until hours later.

He called in the afternoon on Friday and mentioned being at work probably going to finish a little late due to a job (he's a plumber)
Probably wouldn't be free until 7.30 or later. I suggested that he call me when he was done as my mum hasn't called.

He called again at 5 to 6 and said his daughters mum hadn't picked her up and he would need to.
He left it as he'd call me later...
My mum came and went...
But there was no word. Something he'd done for a second night running.

I could have text or called him but I felt like I was being pushy if I disturbed him plus I didn't want to seem like I couldn't find something to do without him.
I watched a film and crashed out.

Overnight I updated my phone and my whatsapp wasn't working properly, my friends mentioned my image and status not displaying.

I've since managed to fix it.

Half the days come and gone and neither of us have made contact.

I think I should have listened to him when he said he didn't want to sleep with me too soon as it may cause him to lose interest...
He also I think I also should have listened to him when he said he was scared about committing.
I should of also kept my mouth shut and not said I wanted to still go on my tinder dates to rule everyone out. (But not saying felt like i was cheating)
I also think I should have followed my gut when I thought he was acting odd and asked him if we were cool...


I've never dated a Sagittarius guy and his behaviour has totally thrown me it was so intense and we got on. Everything seemed to be going at a good rate.
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Terrance · 41-45, M
I'd say none of what you have done has had any impact. You could have held off sleeping with him and you may still be in a good place with him... But... If he has gotten distant now, he would have at some point in the near future anyway
Peppa · 31-35, F
@Terrance you know I've just learnt to just brush it off
Terrance · 41-45, M
@Peppa that's good... We all do it... I'm the worst
Peppa · 31-35, F
@Terrance I liked him, there was massive sexual chemistry, we were so a like on so much. He came across just as keen.
He wasn't pushy, we both agreed to take the plunge this early. Maybe it was an act but he was really nervous. He even wanted to stay that night again by almost falling asleep. We talked once he got in. So it was him not me.
Terrance · 41-45, M
@Peppa I agree