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Is this a sign he faded me out of his life?

We talked intensely for days we racked up 12hours of talking time in just 4 days.
I let him do the chasing.
We finally went on our first date on the Monday and it was amazing we just clicked.

We met up again for a walk on the Tuesday night. Although we agreed to wait to sleep together it didn't feel wrong we were both a little nervous or at least I was... and we made love...
We ended up spending the whole of Wednesday together in bed.

He wanted to see me again on the Thursday but cancelled he mentioned having his daughter last minute.
He then went on to suggest Friday night.
I explained my mother would be round and that it might not work unless he wanted to come over later...
I had noticed that he was a little different though he would usually text me first thing where as what had turned into a competition on who could text first changed to me texting and him not responding until hours later.

He called in the afternoon on Friday and mentioned being at work probably going to finish a little late due to a job (he's a plumber)
Probably wouldn't be free until 7.30 or later. I suggested that he call me when he was done as my mum hasn't called.

He called again at 5 to 6 and said his daughters mum hadn't picked her up and he would need to.
He left it as he'd call me later...
My mum came and went...
But there was no word. Something he'd done for a second night running.

I could have text or called him but I felt like I was being pushy if I disturbed him plus I didn't want to seem like I couldn't find something to do without him.
I watched a film and crashed out.

Overnight I updated my phone and my whatsapp wasn't working properly, my friends mentioned my image and status not displaying.

I've since managed to fix it.

Half the days come and gone and neither of us have made contact.

I think I should have listened to him when he said he didn't want to sleep with me too soon as it may cause him to lose interest...
He also I think I also should have listened to him when he said he was scared about committing.
I should of also kept my mouth shut and not said I wanted to still go on my tinder dates to rule everyone out. (But not saying felt like i was cheating)
I also think I should have followed my gut when I thought he was acting odd and asked him if we were cool...


I've never dated a Sagittarius guy and his behaviour has totally thrown me it was so intense and we got on. Everything seemed to be going at a good rate.
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SW-User
never dated. probably never will as i dont trust people in general. most people are just in it for the sex and nothing else. no commitment all instant gratification. known so many women who just fool around now its not worth getting close to anyone. but if you were looking for a commitment and he said he didnt want one or was scared about commitment. you must have a feeling like it wasnt going to work out. when you guys talked and if the guy just talks about sex a lot. back away because thats all he is interested in and once he gets it he's gone. sex can make people stop being interested or it can make things awkward or make people attached. so having sex early in the relationship can be a really bad thing. i dont believe in horoscopes. its just youre personalities or wants were different. plus you wanting to still use tinder for hook ups while seeing someone isnt a good idea if you want a relationship.
Peppa · 31-35, F
@SW-User thank you for commenting.
OK so when we first started talking it was very all above board. I grilled him about his wants and desires. His situation with his daughters mum, current living situation, work situation etc. He passed the questions asked. He also passed because he wanted a relationship and wanted to date.
There were some teething issues with him finding the time to meet up.
But once we did we had already established a level of comfortable rapport. We clicked. we both liked our innuendos and euphemisms.
But as we went to a gallery there was a lot of stuff that we shared and knowledge that we poured into one another. He even had us reading in public.
We didn't touch or kiss until we got to the station 6 hours later. It was soft and gentle. I unfortunately ended up grazing his erection, when the train stopped.
Since then we've discussed marriage, what bee want for our future together, agreed on how many children.
He's proposed to me in jist by placing my ring on my wedding finger.
He's given me silly gifts like the trophy he won when he went go karting.
After we slept together things started to feel different and I became more paranoid I guess.