If you knew your partner was talking to other people about their fetishist and what not, how would you feel about it?

@JP1119 Yes. And it broke my heart. He told me he loved me. How does a man give me a ring and do that?

@hallsa01 I’m sorry that happened to you, but I was asking Roseanator.

okay I'm officially an asshole I am leaving sw

No, it’s okay that you answered, I just want to make it clear that I want to hear from Roseanator too.

@JP1119 yes it has.

@Roseanator I’m sorry that happened to you. It’s hard for me to know how I would react because I’ve never had a girlfriend before, but I kind of think I’m a very non-jealous type. How did you react?

@JP1119 I was/still is very upset about it. I don't like him talking to other girls about sexual stuff.

@Roseanator Yeah, that sounds like a normal, reasonable reaction.

@JP1119 I try to be reasonable. But I am a female so it doesn't happen often haha

@Roseanator Have you made it clear that he can talk to you about his fetishes?

@JP1119 duh