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Am I wrong?

our relationship has been pretty rocky I've accepted her for who she really is and I love her more than anything in this world but idk she seems to always be on edge and she thinks I'll leave after the slightest problem or whatever but anyways just recently I've started to notice she isn't really taking her of her mental health issues and she doesn't love herself so I broke it off with her and I told her that she needed to focus on what's more important (her sanity) don't know if I spelt that right haha and she needed to learn how to love herself before she could love me. Am I wrong for this? I feel really guilty for doing this but I feel as if this is what she's needs and I love her so much and it's killing me to even do this and I just need some inputs anyone..?
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monster007 · 46-50, F
well... from my experience most of the people I know who LOVE THEMSELVES ... they were NOT capable to love other's: partner, children.... so I am not sure what kind of crap u r talking about that she needs to love herself 1st... people who love themselves so much they just think about themselves its just: me me me.... other people r not important to them... so if i hear from someone that u have to love yrself first I will puke ... not sure who came out with this shit but in reality is incorrect! I guess someone who got crossed wires in the brain think like this.... people who love others not themselves are capable of loving anotherone....
Lostinconfusion · 22-25, F
@monster007 ur wrong and probably never had to deal with a partner who was midly insecure about everything about themselves which is what I meant about loving herself.
monster007 · 46-50, F
@Lostinconfusion I am pretty sure I am not ....and I know that U R WRONG!... I had a bf who loved himself so much that he was not capable of loving and caring for his partner or his children... he was just standing in the mirror and repeated that he loved himself... blah, blah... also others who loved themselves they were just selfish sad people that's all... not sure if they even human and their heart are made with a stone... don't try to change my mind as I did experience those loving themselves people...
Lostinconfusion · 22-25, F
@monster007 yeah... Idk what ur talking about but k?
monster007 · 46-50, F
@Lostinconfusion hmmmm... the conclusion is that u r wrong!
Lostinconfusion · 22-25, F
@monster007 if u say so
Jibby · 56-60, C
@monster007 oh my God he might be my long lost brother