What priorities do you need to be aligned to marry someone?

How important do you think shared interests are?

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I gotta say my boyfriend and I don't have much in common but we find each other really interesting, our conversations last hours discussing things. It can be nice sharing different perspectives

Challenger1 · M

@Mrsbetweenfatandfit I agree... but how long does that last? I am not necessarily talking about perspectives. What about things you like doing? what about priorities? Does one of you focus more on work and career? Does one want more time together at the expense of cash?

Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F

@Challenger1 for my parents his parents and grandparents it worked between 20- 50 years. Good examples to look at. Being different has opened our minds to see another side. Compromise comes in which I think has brought in a lot of growth to both of us