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How do you feel after you’ve rejected someone?

I feel like the world’s biggest jerk! But I gotta think about my feelings too! I remember a guy told me once that if a guy has a crush on you and you aren’t seeing anyone, he deserves atleast one date. Not only do I disagree with that, it made me very mad!
HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. Nothing will turn a woman psycho like turning her down
xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F
@HoraceGreenley That’s why I don’t hit on guys.
SW-User
I don't agree with that at all. Nobody owes anyone anything.
xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F
@SW-User Thank You for agreeing! :)
SW-User
@xRockGlossPrincessx No problem. Some people can be so entitled.
Tminus6453 · M
Eh, i dont do it unless i have a good reason, and ive been on the wrong end enough times
xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F
But what if you’re seeing someone and you get asked out?!! @Tminus6453
Tminus6453 · M
@xRockGlossPrincessx Just say 'no thanks im already seein someone else'.. I dont feel bad about rejecting someone that way at all
xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F
@Tminus6453 Wow I don’t think anyone should, Thanks! :)
Tellica · 22-25, F
Well. I guess I never really reject someone. I like build a wall between me a humankind. So people usually don't reach out to me.
xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F
@Tellica Oh I’m sorry. :(
Tellica · 22-25, F
@xRockGlossPrincessx It's ok. I've got a boyfriend. So I actually really don't want attention.
SW-User
ive done it a couple of times.. didnt feel good. it doesnt feel good either way, either being rejected or rejecting someone.
xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F
Neither feels good yes! @SW-User
RemovedUsername8862 · 26-30, M
Understandable. I don't see why you'd owe anyone anything as a product of their feelings.

What entitlement.
xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F
Introvertish20 · 26-30, F
I get angry that they weren't the kind of person I wouldn't reject.😂
xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F
@Introvertish20 Moe to! Like why can’t I be attracted to you?!! Lmao
SailorMarz · F
I've seen men call women bitches for not atleast giving them a chance.

Its funny
SailorMarz · F
@xRockGlossPrincessx in the past being too nice to sweet men has gotten me in trouble...the next day they think you're dating. And then their friends walk by like "i see you ;)" and you're there like "wtf.."
xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F
@SailorMarz Holy! This has happened to me before! You’re nice to the guy and he thinks you’re dating! It makes me want to ignore them even more! I know I just said that but wow like why does it have to be so hard to be “just friends” with the opposite sex!
SailorMarz · F
Its possible to be just friends with the opposite sex, yeah. Just...lol nevermind

@xRockGlossPrincessx
SW-User
I regret ever rejecting the guy I met in middle school. He took me out to the homecoming dance and everything. He was so sweet.
xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F
@SW-User Why did you reject him then?!!
SW-User
@xRockGlossPrincessx We were both young I think we were both 14. Plus I lived about 20 minuets away from where he lived. I felt that my parents weren't going to drive me to spend time with him everyday.
SW-User
I never rejected anyone because I am a GOOD person! /s
xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F
@SW-User Soooo you date everyone then?
SW-User
@xRockGlossPrincessx [i][big][b]/s[/b][/big][/i]
I never rejected any one. Had no need to.
xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F
@Elandra77 Because you don’t get asked out or you give everyone a chance?
@xRockGlossPrincessx Because I WAS in a long term marriage.(32 years) And because I have taken myself out of dating and such- as I do not need that hurt and betrayal again. Besides, at my age I am not exactly in demand.
He's an idiot. Nobody "deserves" a date with anyone. Wonder if he thinks a girl he considers unattractive would be "entitled" to a "mercy date" from [b]him[/b] ?
xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F
@bijouxbroussard Hey I never thought about that before! Good point to bring up!

 
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