😣My ex sent me a pic of him wearing a jacket I got him.. why?

@romell maybe, but he works 24/7 he has no time for a relationship, plus he's 25 I'm 32.. and he's a bad kisser 😒

@estranged what's the point in acknowledging it? There are issues there that don't suit you.

@estranged and he's a bad kisser ..this seems to BE THE PROBLEM lol

@romell haha sort of.. but he also lives far away and he can't travel to see me I had to travel and sometimes they call him for work and I end up alone

@estranged if you are convinced its a no go ..then tell him so

What issues?
I acknowledged it because I don't hate him.. and I sometimes feel nostalgic for the nice times.. I didn't exactly have someone like me this much before.. he knows I'm not going back to him @Peppa

@estranged the lack of time, and physical chemistry is a big factor in a relationship. Because they leave either person dissatisfied. That's why I say they are issues. Not meant to aggravate. Just

@romell thats what i am doing, i just told him to stop contacting me because it's unhealthy .. i had him blocked.. but a couple of months ago i was feeling down and i spoke to him because it lifted me up a bit.. i knew he still likes me and i needed to feel that - i know it's selfish.. but we didn't talk since .. it is wrong but life is harsh and we get lonely sometimes, and naturally we try to go back to the last time we were happy :/

he also calls me from time to time.. i feel good then i feel guilty, i know he doesn't have time or a chance to meet someone, and he keeps coming back to me for similar reasons even if he is not aware of it...

@estranged atb

@estranged I was in a situation where I was him in the situation where I really liked the guy but we don't work because he's really busy and although the sex is good he treats me like something disposable. It's not fair to come back and toy with someone's feelings. It's been like this for 8 years. In the past he was able to convince me he cared but now the loves gone I can see the truth. And I'm just a body until his situation allows him to find someone to settle with...

@Peppa that's not healthy I know what you mean

@estranged this is why I say it's not good try and find another outlet for these feelings...