Girl trouble. Advice?

Girl I knew since 2011 ans even dated told me recently if I were to leave she would respect my decision? Who says that. I don't think she cares for me anymore. Long story short I told her if she can't honestly tell me if I'm worthwhile anymore then we can't be friends. Here I am a week later wanting to mend those bridges. Should I?

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hartfire

Personally, I would not have interpreted her comment in that way. I would have responded with, "Thank you, and if you were to leave me, I would respect your decision too. I really like it that we are together because we freely choose it."

Find out what she needs, and then figure out if that is something you would enjoy giving.

If how you behave in the relationship meets most of her needs for friendship, love and sexual pleasure, then she will most likely want to stay with you. And hopefully she meets yours in the same ways.