My ex bf hurt me a lot. I broke up with him to see if he would change.He is now dating someone else. I feel really depressed. How do I move forward?

I thought he would change. Instead, he tried to ruin my life (get back at me in every way by turning my friends against me). I loved him a lot so it was very difficult for me. He is now dating various women and doing the same thing he did with me. I only went on one date but I feel bad about it. I just feel depressed even though I know I made the right decision. But how do I stop from feeling bad/missing him - move forward?

This page is a permanent link to the reply below and its nested replies. See all post replies »

Miram · 31-35, F

To break up with someone to see if they would change into something more acceptable for you isn't an act of love. And wasn't wise to do.

What did he do that hurt you? If he was abusive that should be your reasoning to walk away. Abuse also isn't an act of love.

Love might have been present or present now bùt it has nothing to do with struggling to go back to an abusive relationship. Love isn't about getting anything. That's attachment and your feelings towards you that is making it difficult for you to let go.

Sensitiveheart · 31-35, F

@Miram Thank you for your wise words. I appreciate it. If you want to know the full story here it is (it should answer your questions) https://similarworlds.com/381382-I-Have-a-Broken-Heart/522968-I-was-in-a-relationship-with-a-man-who-was-10

Thank you for taking the time to respond to me