It sounds like you're better off without him!

That's how dating works !
You try other people on and see how they fit.

Sadly you often find that the very thing that attracted you to them in the first place, was probably THE reason you should have avoided them !
But that's all part of the game unfortunately !

Mourn if you must. But know there are better folk out there who are gonna make you feel like you are the very thing they want !

You do sound very sad but there is a solution. Do things to keep your mind busy, and off him. You will make better friends who are more worthy of you. Don't remain focused on someone that has no feelings or consideration of you as a beautiful person

Use his bad character traits as a tool. Trust me if you concentrate all the reasons why you are better of without him, it will become easier to let him go. I mean who wants to be a man who dates multiple woman at the same time? This one is my personal favorite, how can I find it hard to get over a person who never loved me from the start?

To break up with someone to see if they would change into something more acceptable for you isn't an act of love. And wasn't wise to do.

What did he do that hurt you? If he was abusive that should be your reasoning to walk away. Abuse also isn't an act of love.

Love might have been present or present now bùt it has nothing to do with struggling to go back to an abusive relationship. Love isn't about getting anything. That's attachment and your feelings towards you that is making it difficult for you to let go.

accept the hardest thing to accept..but will set you free...he does NOT want to be with you anymore...he is immature and selfish. This is all up to you to move on. I think you dodged a bullet...why would you want anything else to do with someone who as you said "tried to ruin my life (get back at me in every way by turning my friends against me)." There is no love there...if you think you still love a jerk like that you need to work on your self esteem and self respect

you just experienced a fuckboi, i cant tell you get over it cause it will hurt since u loved him but in time you will become much more stronger and can spot them from miles.. smell them from miles too, it will work out for u very soon too 💚

So, he's a manwhore.

You're not happy you rid him in your life?!