Have you ever gone into a relationship thinking you could change that person more to your liking?

@SW-User OK, but what if they're a slob. You're not going to get them to pick up after themselves?

@MeInCharge well I guess I wouldn't be with a slob in the first place. I don't believe in changing people I think you have to adapt to one another's differences and if you can't, your relationship won't work