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Statistically the odds are not in favor that people that meet online will have lasting relationships.

Dating sites want you to believe differently but if you go read actual research done by psychologists , attachments are formed very quickly , marriages happen quickly too, but the likelihood of that marrriage lasting is not good at all. You get into someones head by emailing or chatting. Unrealistic expectations are formed and it is completely different when the honeymoon phase is over . 6 months - sometimes a year of physical togetherness and it falls apart. I am not saying in all cases but in majority of cases. Very interesting . I guess my interest was spurred because i myself was a "victim" and fell in love with someone i met online. Also i know many couples that met that way and it hardly ever last longer than a few years. (If that long). The best way to have a realistic relationship is to actually physically go out with someone and spend time together . It prevents that mental attachment that is very very unhealthy.
SW-User
I think it depends on the expectations of the individuals, the level of honesty, and communication. I have been together with a man I met four years ago online. This is, by far, the best relationship I've ever had.
SW-User
Strange. The research I read said they have the same chances of working as relationships that begin offline.
CheerfullyCurious · 46-50, F
You are welcome to share. I only believe research done by top notch universities . I read all the other crap too. The problem with online relationships is the mental attachment. I am not saying it cannot work but i personally am not wasting my time on that. I rather do things - go to the movies, attend a sports event , say romantic things face to face, hold hands, hug and LIVE . @SW-User
Jackaloftheazuresand · 26-30, M
Even in the real world people are terrible at relationships
I tried it once and NEVER again! I was totally against it before I ever got myself into it and I kick myself for submitting to my weakness
Today, we are still friends but i think he still holds onto hope for it to form into something. I'm not too quick to submit. I much rather keep him as a friend
Thats good news for dating sites ...people who don't last go back on to try again..Dating sites don't actually want people to meet then leave. i agree with people having high expectations also probably being let down.
CheerfullyCurious · 46-50, F
It is crazy. I have been on these sites and you get people that are on and off on these sites for years. The longest i have heard about is 9 years on and off. 🙄@Cutiepi23
Beachlover · M
Hope things work out for you and that you find the friendship and happiness you are looking for
CheerfullyCurious · 46-50, F
Aww thanks . Yes, but it is not going to be with someone mentally brainwashing me with emails :) to get me to form an unnatural attachment to them. i am really feeling happy these days. @Beachlover
Beachlover · M
@CheerfullyCurious As long as your happy then that's what counts , and stay positive the good things you deserve will come your way.
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AlmostAnAngel · 100+, F
Absolutely true. That is why I am opting out .
SW-User
It's a waste of time.
MethDozer · M
Statistically the odds are against any relationship is going to last.

 
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