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I really don't know what's going on here

So this guy and I have been talking for a while now. We live in different states, but go to the same college. It was really great when we started talking, we talked everyday and he would always try to start a conversation or something with me. Then after a month or so he became more distant. I don't really know what happened, I thought everything was good. Now he won't talk to me unless i start the conversation. i asked him what's up, and he said that he hasn't really been talking to anyone lately, and that it's not me and I didn't do anything. I haven't talked to him in a week, i was trying to give him some space, but idk I really wanna see how he is, and make sure he hasn't forgotten about me lol. What should I do, and why is he maybe being like this?
lakergoy · 36-40, M
Maybe he heard something bad about you,thats so wrong but it happens. Maybe he had a gay experience and is ashamed,unlikely,but at your age.it happens. Maybe he got drunk and banged some out of town tail and is ashamed.maybe someone close to him died and he is just shut down right now. He could have someone that has found out they don't have long ...lot of possibilities, only you can find out for sure. Start by telling you care for him and are worried about him and if he wants to open up
TryhardDreamer · 26-30, M
Let him know that you wanna help him with whatever he's dealing with. If he's in some sort of trouble thats making him not wanna talk to anyone, having someone like you to support him is extremely helpful.
SW-User
Unless you know of some way you offended him, he may just be feeling disappointment? Young men can be full of hope, and equally just as quick, turn away becoming despondent? No clue.
MikeSp · 56-60, M
Have you met in person yet? It's hard to read somebody otherwise. We have all kinds of distractions to deal with. Just let him know you are there for him when he's ready to talk.
Goralski · 51-55, M
Maybe he has a real girlfriend
Mahaq · F
He doesn’t feel for you like you do

 
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