I think many people do this ,especially online ... it's best to be realistic and keep perspective

Fr. Fantasy is always gonna b better than the reality. Theres no wrong in them in the fantasy.

We imagine the people we feel affection for as something they are not never realizing how they really are.

In my case I'm not so sure if I was putting her on a pedestal. She was beautiful inside and out and kind. Nice to everyone. I'd like to meet someone exactly like her.

Of course most people are better in abstract. Then we can imagine them the way we want them to be. (Reality normally is a let down)

Making your own truths with someone else's lies....

If they don't show you they "love" you, then it's not love and reminder, there are ways they also show you they don't.... be awake to it 😇

I fell in love with the idea of what we could be and it turned out I was wrong

i had fallen in love with who that person said they were... that was an online person i fell in love with.. she lied a lot..

I've been on the other end of this equation

Yeah, it can definitely happen. :/

Yes, and now I can't trust others :/

yeah, that was dumb.