What's your take on this?

When my bf and I started dated abt two years ago his work was slow. I was never wined and dined by him, When we do go out, I would cover the bill etc and help out a little financially.
Abt a year into dating i told him abt my savings.
A few months ago his work picked back up.
Two months ago he asked me to take a loan on my name and give him half the money so he can build a savings. Monthly he would pay back his share of the loan. I didn't take the loan and he's pissed.
Today He told me we are still together but keeping our finances separate.

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shuhak · M

Warning! This is NOT a good relationship. It's evident that he's more interested in himself than you (despite what he may tell you). One does NOT take out a loan to get savings. That's just stupid. He also sounds like a user. He'll use you (and your finances) and when he gets you deep into debt, he'll up and leave. The red flags are there, but it's up to you.