What's your take on this?

When my bf and I started dated abt two years ago his work was slow. I was never wined and dined by him, When we do go out, I would cover the bill etc and help out a little financially.
Abt a year into dating i told him abt my savings.
A few months ago his work picked back up.
Two months ago he asked me to take a loan on my name and give him half the money so he can build a savings. Monthly he would pay back his share of the loan. I didn't take the loan and he's pissed.
Today He told me we are still together but keeping our finances separate.

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JerseyGal · 51-55, F

Personally, when anyone doesn't respect your decision not to take out a loan to help them...and then remains pissed about it, is just not worth your time.
If you're truly "together", he'd show you rather than acting this way.
There are far too many out there who try anything to scam others out of money, including getting into a relationship. They pretend to pour love on you. Try to get your account info, get credit cards from you,etc.
I say just be careful.
If he really loves you and wants this relationship to work out, he'll get over being pissed and move on. Best of luck to you. ☺