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ashrock1990 · 31-35, M
Maybe you should ask yourself why are you shy or afraid to make first move
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Seriously I just don't feel any kind of powerful attraction that tells me GO TALK TO HIM. I often let things flow as they are
ashrock1990 · 31-35, M
@SW-User Cause you want everything to come to you

NigelDoes · 56-60, M Best Comment
You spelled jeans wrong.
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ahahaha great answer 😂
NigelDoes · 56-60, M
Thanks for best answer. :-)
Terrance · 41-45, M
Because we'd never get laid if we didn't
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NankerPhelge · 61-69, M
@GypsyKing These are your own postings as addressed to me:

"You don't test your testosterone levels every time you encounter women that are forward"

"You have to go to the doctor and convince him that you are suffering from low testosterone"

This is not a case of me disagreeing with you, it's a case of you making assumptions about me.
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NankerPhelge · 61-69, M
@GypsyKing How do you know those "facts" apply [i]specifically[/i] to [i]me[/i]? You don't know, do you? You are just assuming that simply because they don't apply to [i]you[/i] personally.
NankerPhelge · 61-69, M
I don't think it is wired in our genes because I much prefer it when women approach me.
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No, it's stupidly socially constructed. Men = alpha = has to make first move. 🙄
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Yes, but we're the only species capable of inhibiting our instincts due to fear caused by thoughts. In this case, some men have approach anxiety and are deathly afraid of rejection. If we were just animals, the thought would never override the sexual need to fuck the girl he wants.
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Or there would be rape 🤔 haha.
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But sadly that happens too. Men raping women are waaaay more common than the other way around. I still think there's a biological element to it
Women fear rejection ,men don't give a fuck
@NankerPhelge 😂 are you talking about you ?
@NunIover Are you saying you have to be in a place with yourself of being absolutely certain you won't be rejected before you act? [i]Everything[/i] in life is a gamble. You have to take a chances in order to accomplish [i]anything[/i].
No I'm saying I don't care if I get rejected, if you aren't in you can't win @PhoenixPhail
Ummm women do it too actually
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@SStarfish maybe if you're ridiculously hot. It's pretty rare.
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Yeah but I said usually...it's men. A lot more often actually
@SW-User oh i wouldn't know lol
Cowboybob · M
Because if we waited for them, we'd all grow old
MURD3RM0NK3Y · 26-30, M
Yes. We must go out and get what we want.
Mugin16 · 46-50, M
Just start to approach men and see what happen. Let us know the guys'reactions and how you feel about it. And the outcome of course.
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I don't feel the need to do it
Mugin16 · 46-50, M
@SW-User There you have the answer to your question. Men approach women because otherwise you would get the chance to flirt and seduce one.
it's nice knowing you're interest is interested in you when he walks up to you first. that's just me and some women are just shy at first (like me)
😊 Yes, it's Hard wired in. The game begins, chase me, chase me, catch me if you can. And we chase you until you catch us, fun huh.
Mastermadman · 61-69, M
Its the way it dhould be if people dont have their priorities/place in life screwed up
Good question. There MAY be a genetic component, and for certain, it's wired in society.
FLami · 31-35, M
I don't think men will mind women approaching them.
lorne13 · 61-69, M
It's wired in their culture
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I never feel like approaching a guy even if I think he's attractive. I dunno why
FCNantes · 22-25, M
I dare you to approach 1! Tell me if you do.
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@FCNantes you talking to me?
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boredom perhaps
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
To take a lunch order.
river52 · 70-79, M
I think so.

 
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