Ever got someone angry at you, because they were trying and you didn't notice?

Apparently I've upset a woman I know by not acknowledging her sexiness. Problem is, I couldn't tell that I was supposed to. She's cute for sure, but really nothing seemed out of the ordinary. She wore regular clothes and didn't respond to the compliments I did give her. Am I missing something here?

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JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F

She wants you to notice her on your own and not have to point it out. She obviously thinks she is giving you clear signals.

Xuan12 · 31-35, M

@JaggedLittlePill Yeah, I suppose that's the case. But obviously I didn't know what those signals were at all. I told her before that she's attractive, but she didn't respond. To be sexy...well...we'd have to have a talk before I could determine her to be sexy or not. That's the kind of guy I am.

JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F

Well of course..that is a normal thing to want ..at least in my opinion. I think she might not be the best at putting herself out there and this might be the best she can do at this point. Maybe..if you have an interest you need to take the lead....lol..sometimes we women have a hard time with this kind of thing !

Xuan12 · 31-35, M

@JaggedLittlePill Maybe another time. She's really upset at me. Said I've shaken her confidence. I feel sorry for her, I didn't mean to.

JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F

@Xuan12 I think that is pretty unfair of her

Xuan12 · 31-35, M

@JaggedLittlePill Maybe, I just think everything would have gone a lot smoother if she had talked to me sooner.