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Guys would you talk to a mad girl or avoid?

Like she is someone quite closed to you who got mad at you obviously lately (unless you're too dumb to notice) and she ignores your causal talk messages but drops you some clues of asking you to talk about the issue with her
TodayINeedACoffee · 26-30, F
Hmm. It's hard to give advice without knowing what the issue is, but in the past when I have gotten pissed and needed to talk about it with my partner, I would always start by thinking about what I wanted out of the conversation (I.E. like, do I want an apology, do I want them to do something differently), then I tell my partner explicitly that I need to talk to them about the subject and ask them when would be a good time for them so maybe they don't feel cornered. Maybe if you go into the conversation knowing what you want instead of just venting, you can keep a cooler head and not be afraid to screw anything up! Good luck.
TodayINeedACoffee · 26-30, F
I think that if you are mad at someone, it is always best to just be honest and forward and bring it up to them. Because ignoring them and dropping clues can sometimes come off as passive aggressive and make the other person feel attacked.
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With guys you got to be direct if you expect them to understand what you need or want. Women pick up on those clues better.
Guys seriously don't do well with hint dropping. You gotta tell them straight up.
TanMiaoMiao · 31-35, F
last month i made a girl in real life mad coz some problems, i avoid talking to her, then last week she came back, keep asking me out for lunch movie and apologize to me. But i reject, too late for her. I dunno why she suddenly become so frenly😹. If she likes u she is going to come back, if not she will probably ignore u forever
Madelenie · 26-30, F
@Tan You...oh you! Sadly you sound like you take her coming-backs for granted... If you know that was you made her mad, and if you had feeling on her, you should've talked to her or wait! It looks she likes you more than you like her tbh :(
OKWTF2 · 51-55, M
I don't do clues nor have mastered the myth of reading a woman's mind. If he has tried "causal talk messages" sounds reasonable he wants to talk and isn't avoiding, if only clueless about how serious/sever the thing was that made you so mad at him?
Madelenie · 26-30, F
@TodayINeedACoffee I want to bring it up for sure, but what if he doesn't want to talk about it? he had ignoring issues sometimes... And I'm really so pissed, I'm afraid that I'd be so mean on my own talking about it then screw up the whole state...
Madelenie · 26-30, F
@pixieCutLover Not to be mean, but what if it was she cares about your feeling and just you're too cowardly to admit or too careless to discover your fault which made? Again, not to be mean sorry
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I wouldn't talk to her about things, simply because I'm not one to pick up subtle hints about things (or at least, realise that I'm picking them up and know what they are)
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Madelenie · 26-30, F
@OKWTF2 what he casual talked are nothing to do with the issue I'm mad at, that kinda means he avoiding it
Abbenthewarwolf · 18-21, M
I don't care.she only wanted my money anyway.I'm beginning to stop talking to people altogether
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Talk. I would let her know I'm here for that. Communication is so important to relationships.
mic11225 · 26-30, M
I'd talk. I don't mind doing that sort of thing sometimes
Sepia · 36-40, F
I don't think so not unless if they are disturbed by it
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Belovebelight · 41-45, F
If you care you will talk. If you don't then move on.
enag19 · 46-50, M
Would love to talk
Hdryder555 · 61-69, M
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