How long since you last felt 'in the zone' with someone?

I can't say I've actually felt like this for a very long time. It truly is the 'pure unobtainium' experience. Trying to think about how it's supposed to feel just seems completely foreign.

I've had two LTR's (last one ended 3 yrs ago) but never been married. So I cannot comment on whether it's supposed to feel any different when you're 'in the zone' as married (or engaged to be married) vs just a standard romantic relationship.

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Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

A couple of years.

Coldplay · 56-60, M

@Keepitsimple unfortunately same here

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

I’m ok with it though 😉@Coldplay

Coldplay · 56-60, M

@Keepitsimple actually me too I guess

Coldplay · 56-60, M

@Keepitsimple I think I just need to accept it as it is

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

That’s not good. You have to keep trying.@Coldplay

Coldplay · 56-60, M

I know thanks. It’s so complicated. @Keepitsimple

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

I’m sorry :( @Coldplay

Coldplay · 56-60, M

Thanks!! Some of it is good. Not all....and not bad enough to walk away. @Keepitsimple

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

Sometimes stability and knowing what you have is enough. Would you want to date again? I wouldn’t. Life is good. Being here taught me that.@Coldplay

Coldplay · 56-60, M

@Keepitsimple Honestly....you just hit the nail on the head. I would hate to get back into the dating scene. And I would NEVER re-marry.

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

@Coldplay Exactly! I always say I would never remarry. I want all my stuff to go to my kids anyway. Maybe like a sometime companion of sorts. Sex and bbq’s 😉.

Coldplay · 56-60, M

@Keepitsimple YES!! You are wise. Lots of both!!!