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I don't get it...

Ok when I was with my ex... he was manipulative & I was insecure at the time & didnt speak up a lot of the time...but when I did, my ex called me a bitch for it... a reason why he's my ex!

He had a thing for Asian girls... I'm Indian & he was critical that I wasn't Chinese! I cant change my ethnicity! He was critical that my cooking wasn't Chinese... no shit! I'm not Chinese!

But when we were together... he wud never show affection to me when others were about... he'd stop abruptly.

Ok we broke up... some time past & we both married other ppl. I found out he married a Chinese girl. I'm ok with that I moved on & got married myself. But I saw his wedding photos & he's over the top with this girl...

Why cudnt he show affection to me when I was with him but he can with his new woman & have photographive proof?
Mamapolo2016 · 70-79, F
Look on the bright side - she's married to a jerk and you're not.
Mguinm · 51-55, F
[@663519,Mamapolo2016] Amen.
Mamapolo2016 · 70-79, F
I don't know him - but it has been my experience that if somebody is cruel to someone who cares about them, sooner or later they will be cruel to everyone who cares about them, and it has little to do with the person they're with - it's the way they feel bigger and taller and better.
BalmyNites · F
Because she won’t put up with what you let him get away with, sorry 🤗
BondGirl84 · 36-40, F
[@561899,BalmyNites] when I did shie respect for myself he still called me a bitch... he didn't like it when I stood my ground... sounds like u are exactly like him...
BalmyNites · F
[@350760,BondGirl84] Lol, some people.. 😁
queenadel · 46-50, F
Might be the opposite, that she is very compliant and does whatever he wants. [@561899,BalmyNites]
Mguinm · 51-55, F
What a loser. I'm sorry you had to put up with that 🤦‍♀️
DonaldTrumpet · 70-79, M
[@350760,BondGirl84]

Free Cakes FoRZ u
BondGirl84 · 36-40, F
[@467787,DonaldTrumpet] thank u for showing me a photo of yourself!
DonaldTrumpet · 70-79, M
[@350760,BondGirl84]
queenadel · 46-50, F
I never understood why some men make such generalisations about an entire ethnic or racial group.
he knows how to show affection
maybe he didn't feel affection for you
or she could be easier to show love to
Cinnamonspice · 26-30, F
I dont remember where I heard this but it's TRUE.
What he's not willing to do for you he will do for another women he's actually interested in.
smileylovesgaming · 26-30, F
Well your not Chinese
Mguinm · 51-55, F
[@350760,BondGirl84] If he wanted a Chinese woman that bad he should have never been involved with you in the first place.
BondGirl84 · 36-40, F
[@23013,Mguinm] that's what I thought... lol
Mguinm · 51-55, F
[@350760,BondGirl84] Well they can stuff their face full of eggrolls and live happily ever after lol.
DonaldTrumpet · 70-79, M
AsiaNZ chineSEz WimENZ is hoTz if TheYZ good LookInGz anDZ NOTz HoTz if they UgLYz
Wiseacre · F
Ik, it hurts...wish them well and move on!
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BondGirl84 · 36-40, F
[@594122,swandfriends] spiritual bond? Him telling me that my ethnicity is wrong? How is that spiritually wrong?

 
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