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Is it bad NOT to pursue someone because you think they deserve better?

I have done it a few times, one with a guy I had feelings for as a teen... and a few since...
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Ugh, I made a lifetime out of that way of thinking. Ever seen who some of these people ended up with and thought "Holy shit I would have been way better" 馃槀
[@897843,NoxDivina] 馃槀 The guy I liked as a teen actually ended up with a bra burning feminazi that looked like she could snap him in half. 馃槀
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[@549377,Snowvixen] The joys of a waning self confidence.
[@897843,NoxDivina] She ended up breaking up with him. It was just weird. 馃槄
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Yeah, I've done that as ultimately I knew they wanted something different to me and we were at the wrong space at the wrong time..Sometimes attraction just isn't enough.. everything else needs to fit into place too
Starcrossed41-45, F
Yes, don't sell yourself short and if you think you aren't good enough - screw that guy work on yourself.
I don't think so. Sometimes we know we are not in the position to be a good partner to someone.
Ryanoliver201126-30, M
Yes it鈥檚 bad. That should be their decision. Don鈥檛 make it for them
english51-55, M
i love your generosity 馃き馃構
[@644861,english] 馃槀 Well, mama always said think of others... but I am beginning to think its my way of justifying pushing people away. . .
english51-55, M
[@549377,Snowvixen] its a bonus for whom ever ,聽馃構
I鈥檒 give you a 3 month trial 馃槆
[@327405,theoneyouwerewarnedabout] 馃槍 All I needs is 3 months 馃槀

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