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Longer sex?

my boyfriend finishes too quick. I’m never fully satisfied. Of course the sex is fantastic and I enjoy every second but I’m just getting started when he finishes. How does he practice at lasting longer!?
Foreplay. Sometimes we need to warm up.
Bubbles · 31-35, F
Foreplay is your answer! Lots and lots of foreplay!
Wetlesxoxo · 26-30, F
Think it’s the way forward [@348601,Bubbles]
DunningKruger · 56-60, M
He might work on improving his foreplay in order to get you further along before he starts.
DunningKruger · 56-60, M
[@10617,doctorianr] Something else I've found that works. When he's getting close to cumming, squeeze the head of his dick. Not terribly hard, just a little. That sometimes works.
Chrislee69 · 41-45, M
Tell him to do kegle exercises all day, also edging will help!
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Kegals help a bit. Or make him go twice
jaymic64 · M
I had the same problem when I was younger. I would always get her off before I got inside her then when I would cum so would she.
I take lexapro and it takes me at least an hour to cum. and sometimes i dont cum at all. just keep goin and goin and goin.
[@449169,Crushdaddy] yea. that's a positive and a negative.... been there, done that.
[@482591,CopperCicada] sometimes a blessing, sometimes a curse. LOL
Docdon23 · 56-60, M
I am learning tantra--it stresses longer sex--hours, even..start with deep breathing--have him breathe in filling belly then lungs, hold, then slowly breathe out (slows down ejaculatory inevitability). Next, have him do kegels--squeeze the muscles that would stop his pee when peeing. Many times, like 100 or more, short ones then hold every, have him practice when he masturbates--build up his arousal and get close to orgasm, then back off (called edging)--do it at least 3-4 times before ejaculating...practice works!! let me know if you want more info!!
walabby · 61-69, M
Have sex more than once per session. I guarantee that by the third time it'll take a lot longer before he gets there.. ?
1972pp · M
Let him do more floorpl, get u into orgasm before him, then u will be ready at any time to receive his gift.
You need to practice lots of edge play should help him with better control
daaaan2000 · M
Masturbate more without getting to cum untill a specific time is up
coolboy86 · 31-35, M
i usually take forever to cum if i use a condom so maybe if he uses a condom
Wetlesxoxo · 26-30, F
[@347919,coolboy86] we’ve been together many years, we’re so in love and we both love sex...
Just want to be able to finish when he does
coolboy86 · 31-35, M
ill talk about it in pm
Docdon23 · 56-60, M
[@640991,Wetlesxoxo] Another tactic would be for him to give you several orgasms before he penetrates you--using his mouth or hands--then when he starts intercourse, you are already loser to more orgasms...
he is in a hurry?
Wetlesxoxo · 26-30, F
[@606329,bird1986] I do this... and it does help a little but then I’m not getting any closer🤔
maybe keep up


Wetlesxoxo · 26-30, F
[@606329,bird1986] 🙄
LTKISS · 56-60, M
He is not like me. I love long foreplay and lots of teasing and then making it slow and passionate. If I am kissed I stay hard for you to just keep going and going.
ap199 · 46-50, M
Let him rest a bit and play with him slowly. Edge him slowly and he will come back around To continue. This time lasting longer
hlpflwthat · M
Is this a matter of moments or more like minutes/way too soon?
hlpflwthat · M
Lol - it was an 'or' question.
Wetlesxoxo · 26-30, F
[@501695,hlpflwthat] minutes then
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Get him to practise his kegels. I feel invincible I'm pretty sure that's the reason why
Its called marathon training and multiple rounds

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