Nursing Department crush

My uncle has Dementia and is in a Nursing Home which is close to my work. I usually go in to visit whenever I'm in the office. It's not an easy experience especially since I was close to him.
There is an elderly man who sits nearby and every now and then his daughter is with him. She must be in her 50s , and still looks cute. We always greet each other or just smile . I always wonder how she would take it if I would suggest that we go for a coffee together after our visit in the Home.
Of course I'm WAY TOO SHY to try it but ... just fantasizing.

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Father2 · 61-69, M

Absolutely, positively go for it. You both have something in common which is an elderly relative in the home. That's the ice-breaker and gives you something to talk about.

Perhaps she is married, perhaps she is gay- so what? All you have to lose is 30 minutes and the cost of a couple of cups of coffee and maybe a scone. If you never see her again, you spent a relaxing 30 minutes finding out a little bit about each other, and you might just meet the perfect gal.

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