Finally lost feeling for my crush with whom I was kind of obsessed
Now I realized that he is just an ordinary guy. Just my feelings made him special. Feeling good actually since that obsession was hurting me alot often.
36-40, F
This page is a permanent link to the reply below and its nested replies. See all post replies »
It's always a good idea to try and rationalise our feelings and to try and separate reality from any romanticised notions or feelings generated from our own emotional deficits. There are many psychological aspects to relationships which can greatly exacerbate the feelings of attachment and similarly of loss.