I Have a Crush

I'm pretty sure I got over my crush, but like she keeps coming back to haunt me AHAHA.

Let me explain:
Basically, I'm pretty sure I've gotten over her because I don't find random excuses to be around her anymore and I don't go out of my way to make time for outings that that she's going for just so we can hang. And those outings are a pretty ideal situation too, because its always my friend who instigates them, and she'll bring her boyfriend, so its like a double date. Went for halloween like this and it was pretty awesome cuz im crush was terrified and clung onto me.

The fact that I can look at such an invitation and say "nah i've got a deadline coming up I work on it" shows I'm over her, cuz last year, I definitely would've gone.

Its Valentines day, and like the whole vibes been around for the week. Yesterday, my friends and I found a half broken rose and we were laughing about it when my ex-crush walked by and said hi. I was like, oh hey just look at this, and since my friends and I were selling the roses and the half broken one with only about three inches of a stalk obviously wasn't going to sell, I was just like 'oh you can have it'. It could've been anyone mind you, like anyone could've walked by and I would've just passed it on to them cuz we couldn't use it anyway. But gosh she posted it on ig, and i was like omg it looks like i've just given her a rose for valentines.

Yeah so the universe can be kinda annoying can't it. My friends noticed it which is extra annoying.

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SoFine · 46-50, F

That you post about her, you are still attracted maybe 10% less, but still you talk and write about her.

1. The good of a crush - is we don't know if we would be compatible. As if we did hook up, then what attracted us to them, could be the fact that shows us, we ain't that attracted to them.
2. The bad of a crush - the one that you could be compatible with, won't happen, as you are blinded by your crush not to notice those that suit you better.

Crush - we all have a few of them.....they are part of growing up.

firelaw · 22-25, F

@SoFine Oh yeah, my crush and I are like 0% compatible despite our common interests in the arts. Which is why I started distancing myself in the first place.

Tbh I like some other ppl too now, but like the only issue with this particular crush of mine is that it was one of the strongest, especially because we're really close.

So I still care about her a lot but like I know we can never date even if she does ever like me. I'm considering that logic to have interfered with my originally hugeee crush on her. I don't go out of my way to strike a conversation or hang out with her anymore and its back to being like any other friend, so thats btr.

firelaw · 22-25, F

@SoFine fast forward to now i fell for a new girl and am currently trying to get over her HAHAH. my old crush (the one from this post) and I talked things out and turns out we used to like each other at the same time but we just didn't know. it was kinda funny and now we joke about it in between talking about our respective love lifes.

Lilnonames · F

Your not over her

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