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I Wonder How Many People Have A Crush On Me

There's a guy at work who I chat with outside on my breaks. He's older, like 45 or so, and has always been a bit flirtatious with me but I never thought too much of it. He had me for secret santa this past christmas and got me two really perfect gifts. He even asked my coworker what kind of stuff I liked because he wanted me to like the gift. Today we were on a break talking and he told me how beautiful he thought I was and that he had some other gifts for me. I was really surprised. He didn't give me any hints about what the gifts are though. He asked me if I was seeing anyone and I asked him the same question. He told me he is in a relationship but for a long time it hasn't been working out and that him and his gf basically just live together for financial reasons. He told me if he didn't have a gf I'd be his first choice. I don't really know what to think about it other than I was pretty charmed by his honesty and compliments. I'm just wondering why he got me gifts and what the gifts are, and what does it all mean.
sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M
oh he's trying too hard..


being a crush and having one is not healthy.


there's a reason why they call it "crush".


and if he's in a relationship well... i hate to see how that person would feel when they discover they're not loyal.



they may have multiple..

eh, this is scary stuff. :/
freeb · 61-69, M
Sounds like he's trying to set up some on the side, have his cake and eat it too. Just because he said something doesn't mean he was honest saying it. Just be careful 💙
He’s not getting any sex and wants to be with you. Be careful getting involved with people you work with.
Thingschange4444 · 56-60, M
Adult grooming. He's with someone.
4meAndyou · F
Ooookay...time for the lawsuit...workplace sexual harassment.
bhatjc · 46-50, M
@4meAndyou So true
bhatjc · 46-50, M
@4meAndyou Report it to HR quick
bhatjc · 46-50, M
Just keep taking thins slowly. But tell him to claim down a bit
What did he get you at Christmas?
SW-User
He’s crushing on you in a bad way, sometimes it’s just for someone on the side... you need to find out what his relationship is really like at home..
xRedx · M
Seems forced on his part. I mean, who gets gitfs for someone right from the start? Tread carefully.
steview100 · 51-55, M
Maybe he means well
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
If youre a girl and remotely attractive then most people are probably crushing on you

 
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