How do you move on from a break up?

I've had so many experiences in relationships and have broken or been broken up with several times. I don't understand why this cut the deepest. It's so hard to move on. I feel stuck. It has been 2 weeks but it felt like forever. There are days when I feel like I'm getting through it and then not anymore. Also, I'm struggling not to stalk his socials.

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robertsnj · 56-60, M

talk to us..what happened 🤗

nym3ria · 31-35, F

@robertsnj He told me that he lost feelings or that he felt detached. But in reality he just can't see himself settling down with me and wanted to know if the grass is greener some place else. Just felt like I wasn't enough because of that reason. I keep going back and forth where I lacked in the relationship etc. 🙃

robertsnj · 56-60, M

@nym3ria nobody lacks in relationships. couples are either compatible or incompatible don't beat yourself up with that line of thought.

how long were you together? did you want to marry him at one time? what do you want in a relationship ? do you have kids---I guess question (and you don't owe me an answer) since you are dating men--is sex fun with the right guy?

nym3ria · 31-35, F

@robertsnj i guess you're right...think it was the insecurity building up since I keep getting rejected by him. it was like, i found myself constantly trying to prove my worth to him which I haven't done that in my past relationships.

A little over a year. We broke up once and got back together after 2 months. I did want to marry him. I thought that was it. I just want safety and security, the most basic stuff. I mean I guess? It should be right?

robertsnj · 56-60, M

@nym3ria hugs i hope you feel better talking about it . You sound like a good catch. I bet you will have a stronger relationship with someone special on your horizion.