I Cheated

My fiancé is in the army and was sent to Afghanistan a few months ago.

I felt so alone, almost abandoned... his best friend was there to comfort me... and I threw myself at him.

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Warchant1975 · 46-50, M

What you cannot do is tell him via a letter or a satellite call..your fiance needs to have his wits about him...he's in a very dangerous place..when he gets home face to face is how you do it...he will probably dump ya I would and I did while I was in Iraq to my ex

Warchant1975 · 46-50, M

All you folks who are sitting here commenting that this type of action by this women is okay should be ashamed...being deployed us a very stressful event in a young man or women's life..sometimes the only thing that makes deployment somewhat bearable is a sweetheart to come home to..what she did is deplorable and if I was her fiance is dump her are then whoop his so called buddy's ass

Challenger1 · M

@Warchant1975: I am with you on this one. Faithfulness is something too often left by the wayside today. Though I understand that it is very hard for the person left behind during a deployment. It takes trust on both sides to believe that the other remains faithful.

Warchant1975 · 46-50, M

True very true..unfortunately I've been through it on my very first deployment...I have several marine corps brothers who have very strong women by there side and having that goes a long way to keeping a marine focused on the terrible task that we have volunteered to do clear head equals steady aim