How did you discover that you’re being cheated on?

It all started with a hunch, I kept everything to myself until a friend saw them...I confronted him, denied it at first but admitted later on.

Acting weird
Being secretive
Living in middle of night when I'm a sleep
Money would turn up missing
Long distance telephone charges on the phone bill from a unknown number multiple times
Found receipts for hotel bills
Caught them at the drive in movie theater together making out

With the 1st woman that did it, one of her friends called me and told me about it.

In other situations it was because of a behavior pattern change that stood out.

I've only ever been the cheater or the person someone in cheating with

I haven't ever cheated on anyone or been cheated on to my knowledge

I felt it.

came home after visiting my sister and saw his name in the snow written in pee. it was his secretary's handwriting

I've never been cheated on.

He told me.

She was secretive with her phone even though i had no interest in it.

So once i saw that, i made her put her password in and went through it

Which time?

About the time you suspect you are being cheated on, you’re being cheated on.

Word of mouth. Then it was confirmed

I come home from work to an empty house

She had sold all the furniture