Once a cheater always a cheater?

I think that at a certain age cheating is common. I think that as long as there is real love in a relationship everything can be worked out but how do you work out cheating. She is now in her late 30's and wants to try again shes a real adult now she cheated on me once and flirted alot when we were together that was back in our early and mid 20's. I want to work it out but don't know where to start.

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carpediem · 61-69, M

People make mistakes. Strong people can work out almost anything if there is a genuine sincere effort to make it right. But not everyone is that secure in their lives. Some people experience the wrong and can't find the strength to get past the mistakes. Too bad for them.