Once a cheater always a cheater?

I think that at a certain age cheating is common. I think that as long as there is real love in a relationship everything can be worked out but how do you work out cheating. She is now in her late 30's and wants to try again shes a real adult now she cheated on me once and flirted alot when we were together that was back in our early and mid 20's. I want to work it out but don't know where to start.

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ElRengo · 70-79, M

As long as the cheater remains far away from you and with no further communication (besides kids related if there are), it´s totally feasable to work it out in terms of keeping it civil.
The cheater may of course become a better human being.
But you don´t need to be the Guinea Pig of the experience,